True Being
- Diane Cordaire
- Feb 5
- 2 min read
Updated: Feb 5

Being Is When Nothing Is Being Taken
There is a difference between giving and being drained.
Many people give from themselves — from effort, responsibility, care, and goodwill. It looks generous, but it costs life. Over time, something is taken. Energy thins. Presence tightens. The body knows before the mind does.
This is not time ageing the body, but life being drawn down.
There is another way of living.
Being is when nothing is being taken.
This does not mean nothing is happening. Care still moves. Action still happens. Words are spoken. But life is not drawn from personal reserves.
Life supplies itself.
The shift is subtle. It happens when someone begins to lean in — not physically, but inwardly. Attention becomes effort. Care becomes responsibility. The person becomes the source.
That is when life starts to drain.
When the leaning stops — when there is a softening rather than an effort — the source changes. Life no longer comes from the person. Life moves through them.
Nothing is lost.
This is not about knowing what to do. Knowing can still belong to the self. This is about placement — standing where life can move without resistance.
Many people are exhausted not because they give too much, but because they have unknowingly become the supply.
Being is different.
Being does not consume.
Being does not strain.
Being does not require self-sacrifice.
Being allows life to give itself.
Self, in this sense, is not the fuel.
Self is the place where life is allowed to pass without cost.
When nothing is being taken, something else appears — steadiness, clarity, and a quiet fullness. Not because more effort is made, but because effort has stopped replacing life.
This is not withdrawal.
It is correct positioning.
That is being.
From this kind of being, a threshold is crossed.
Not from effort to rest, but from self to life flowing.
Life no longer moves from the person. It moves through them.
This is what has long been calledthe fountain of life.
Not something reached, but something entered when resistance stops.
With each breath, there is restoration. Not because something is added, but because nothing is being taken.
This is where renewal happens quietly. Strength without strain. Movement without depletion.
This is why the words make sense when read from being, not belief:
I will renew your youth. You will run and not grow weary.
Not as promise for later, but as description of life when it is allowed to flow.




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