The Biggest Lie

The Biggest Lie

“In the beginning, God made man. And then He made woman — not lesser, not servant, but a help beside him. Together they were whole, standing in perfect alignment, both serving God.”

But at the fall came the twist. Alignment was broken. Adam lost his place in God, and Eve with him. Yet the word “helpmate” remained — stripped of its holiness, twisted into one of the greatest lies I have ever witnessed: that woman was made to serve man, rather than to stand with man in serving God.

From the earliest days, women rose when obedience to God, justice, or necessity demanded it. They were not rebelling against men, but embodying a higher call — breaking molds, carrying the image of God in moments the world did not expect.

In the 1900s, the weight of that lie pressed harder. Women were trained to believe their only worth was as housewives, their role fixed in serving men. But an uprising came, and the pendulum swung. Some broke free of the stigma, but the swing carried too far — from men’s control to women’s control, leaving men cast out into the cold.

The truth has always been this: the real position is not one ruling the other, but man and woman serving God together. If your husband or partner is not serving God, the footing is already wrong. But if he is, then you are not serving a husband or a wife — you are serving the living God, side by side.